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#AtoZChallenge – M is for Marmalade!

18 Monday Apr 2016

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Ah, my first pet. Ever. Well, not exactly. I always had fish and hermit crabs but those don’t really count, do they?

We adopted Marmalade just a week after my mother passed away. I was 12 and a half years old and my father was speaking to our veterinarian (later, my boss) who mentioned they had a hospital cat looking for adoption. My dad thought it was time to give me a little more responsibility and get my first pet.

 

Marmalade ProfessionalActually, one of the veterinary technicians I worked with owned Marmalade (known as Samantha (ick!)) but she moved away to an apartment where she couldn’t keep pets. This all happened around the same time my mother passed away so it really was fate that Marmalade landed in our lives.

 

She is 15 years old and grumpy. I’d chock that up to age except that she was always grumpy. She was a 10 year old cat in a 1 year old’s body. She pretended she disliked everyone but really was a social, loving, maternal cat.

Sleeping

20150704_211120It’s weird to think she could have been someone else’s cat. I don’t think she would have been as wonderful with someone else. When I take a nap, she protects me by screaming and slapping anyone who tries to wake me up. When I’m ill she does not leave my side. She actually follows me around at my heels, which may or may not be a good thing as I constantly trip over her. If I’m bed-ridden she either sleeps by my side or stands guard outside my door. If I move or yawn she comes running to me, sits on my lap and stares at me to make sure I’m not on Death’s door. She won’t eat or drink or use the litter box until I’m asleep and immediately returns so I don’t miss her.

 

But, of course, when I am a-ok all she wants is her fishes!

 

Hi, my name is Monica and I have RA.

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#AtoZChallenge – K is for Kittehs, Kneading, and Kindness…Or Not…

17 Sunday Apr 2016

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Do your cats knead? My cats knead a lot.

 

DSCF2607There are many beliefs about why they do this.

  1. Cats knead their mother’s belly to start milk flow during nursing age. They remember this and years later, in adulthood, show the same affection towards me.
  2. They are just looking for a more comfortable spot. After all, they knead blankets and pillows just as much as they push and pull me.
  3. And, my personal favorite (according to the Oatmeal’s book “How to Tell if your Cat is Plotting to Kill You), “[your] cat is actually checking your internal organs for weaknesses.”

Honestly, all three ideas are extremely possible.

 

Which do you think it is? Do you have any other speculations? Let me know in the comments!

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#AtoZChallenge – J is Going for the Jugular

13 Wednesday Apr 2016

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Speaking of instinct, just over four years ago, Saachi attacked Affie and ripped her lower mandible off her face. Yes, you read that correctly.

 

IMAG0682Saachi was always food-anxious and one morning, as I prepared their meal she just snapped. The way Affie’s injuries turned out we figure she had jumped up to say good morning and Saachi just switched.

Saachi swung the poor girl from side to side and it took both me and my aunt to pull them apart. We rushed Affie to emergency where she stabilized. The hospital kept her mouth closed in a makeshift sling so her jaw wouldn’t just hang then two days later she went through severe dental surgery.

 

IMG-20130224-00205The dental specialist told us this was the most complex surgery he had done. Her entire lower jaw had separated from the rest of her skull. The right break was clean while the left side completely shattered. Thankfully, the muscles remained intact so it was just a matter of her bone healing properly. Unfortunately, there was a 50/50 chance Affie would be paralyzed on her left side.

The surgeon clamped her jaw shut with a wire on both sides and said we just had to hope the bone would heal properly.

We spent 5 months taking Affie out on leash, keeping her from jumping, running, going up/down the stairs (she also broke her leg), weathering the cold, her tantrums, and vomiting her meds on purpose but the time finally came to see how well her face healed.

 

IMG-20130522-00089She went into a second surgery to remove her rotted teeth (we couldn’t brush them while she was healing) and wires and we found out that everything healed perfectly well. She was 100% healed, no paralysis!

 

But, back to Saachi really quickly. I never felt anger towards her. After all, she was a dog who acted on instinct. She felt threatened and she attacked. It ended in more injuries just because of their size difference. After all, Saachi was 10 times bigger than Affie. And what was really amazing was how forgiving Affie was! They did drift apart slightly after the attack but Affie forgave Saachi ten days after her surgery, she went up to her wagged her tail and licked her nose. I may not go on instinct like a dog but I don’t know if I’d be that forgiving towards the person who tried to kill me!

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Smiling seven days later!

We were extremely lucky Affie was too stubborn to die and now four years later it is like nothing ever happened!

 

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#AtoZChallenge – I is for Ideas, Instinct and Ink Blots

11 Monday Apr 2016

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Have you ever wondered what goes through a dog’s mind when they get an idea?

Big Puppy (5 mo.)

I have. And I honestly have not come up with any answers.

Sometimes, their actions are as little as sitting in a comfortable bed they’re too big for.

Sometimes, it’s a little bigger like when Saachi  got hold of a wet ink pen and chewed it up. She didn’t swallow it….she just chewed it up, permanently stained the carpet and her tongue.

Full Body

Now probably the most mind-boggling to me is when Saachi dug her face into the snow. She was not particularly fond of winter so she did not stay out long and helped me warm her paws when she came inside. But, without fail, she always dug her face (and basket muzzle) into the snow. And, probably, unbeknownst to her, the muzzle kept the snow on her face.

She would then rush inside looking for help in removing her it looking sad and scared all at the same time!

 

DSCF7159 What if dogs relied less on instinct and just spent a few seconds more thinking ideas through?? I guess life with them would not be as entertaining.

 

Aww

Hi, my name is Monica and I have RA.

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#AtoZChallenge – Concerning Hobbits, Hobbiton and Holidays

09 Saturday Apr 2016

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I was introduced to Lord of the Rings and Middle Earth and the tender age of eleven. Unlike most schools, mine did not require us to read the Hobbit during the year or over the course of the summer.

So, the story only reached my radar when the first movie came out. I was transported into another world and even more so, I was enthralled by the scenery. I could not get over the beauty of New Zealand.

I was mostly taken with Hobbiton (which thankfully still exists) because I loved hobbits the most. I was especially taken with their love of food and nature. They respected the earth and lived a carefree existence, ferreted away from the horrors of the outside world.

I vowed I’d visit each and every landscape, even the ones only accessible by helicopter. I’d travel the same path as the Fellowship. Even now, more than a decade later, it is still my number one travel destination.

 

Sometimes I wish I could just scurry into a hole under the hill and live life by tending a garden, enjoying a pint at the Green Dragon and smoking a pipe full of pipe weed. Maybe one day, on holiday, I will.

 

Hi, my name is Monica and I have RA.

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#AtoZChallenge – F is for Firefly and Freedom

08 Friday Apr 2016

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Meet Harry.

IMG_0898I noticed him hanging around the window for about a month before I named and penned him my pet. He was old so he no longer glowed but he was smart. He hung out on my plants to get water then he’d wander around the room.

When he gets cabin fever, he flies and lands on Marmalade’s back when she goes to the litter box and hangs out in the bathroom for a bit. When he gets bored, he hitches a ride back.

 

IMG_0897During the day he hangs out on the drawers next to where I sit. He feeds on crumbs that I leave him. He especially likes chocolate. When I try to take it away from him but he aggressively waves his antennae at me!

 

Hi, my name is Monica and I have RA.

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#AtoZChallenge – G is for Growing Up, Green Thumb, and Gardening

07 Thursday Apr 2016

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I messed up my alphabet! Tomorrow I will post my “F is for…”

 

I always loved nature. I grew up in the suburbs of Washington DC but in a very secluded wooded area. The neighborhood, which also housed a Frank Lloyd Wright creation, was protected so no one could cut down trees or expand “sideways” on their properties. To this day it remains quiet and natural.

allplantsI was an only child and there were few other children my age in the vicinity so my parents let me play outside most of the time, running around, playing in the trees, chasing bugs, birds and other wild life. I thoroughly enjoyed my time outside.

Even though I am a nature lover I’ve never had green thumbs. Those belonged to my mother. She loved gardening. I helped her a little then eventually got side-tracked by the butterflies and worms! I loved watching the worms make their way through the soil, chomping away at anything in their way. I explored the back yard and found the moth cocoons and butterfly chrysalis and watched them transform.

 

succulent1But nature was not just abundant outside the home. We kept plants in almost every room of the house. My favorite was an aloe vera plant that probably got a little too much use. I was a curious and clumsy kid. Whenever I fell down and scraped my knees, or cut myself on a tree branch my mother cut a portion of the leaf and rubbed the gel over the wound. That was probably one of my favorite things ever! It was just so neat how a little leaf could produce that cool, soothing gel.

 

succulent2_edited-1Now, so many years later, I still keep an aloe vera plant in my room. It does not get as much use because I am too terrified of my autoimmunity (I run the risk of infection every time I cut myself) but it’s a  nice reminder of my childhood and my love of the outdoors.

 

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