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This week I am grateful for…
…Being able to afford a dog walker for Mocha while my father recovers from a knee injury.
What are you grateful for?
Hi, my name is Monica and I have RA.
21 Sunday Jan 2018
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This week I am grateful for…
…Being able to afford a dog walker for Mocha while my father recovers from a knee injury.
What are you grateful for?
Hi, my name is Monica and I have RA.
14 Sunday Jan 2018
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Well, this week has been more stressful than most but some good things happened.
I am grateful that…
My physical therapy didn’t exacerbate my Rheumatoid Arthritis symptoms so I didn’t flare up.
Mocha and I had three “perfect” walks this week. This means no jumping, pulling or stealing things (like gloves, hats or doggie bags).
What are you grateful for this week?
08 Monday Jan 2018
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26 Tuesday Dec 2017
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It’s that time of year again where everything is festive and bright. Everyone is merry and looking forward to food in abundance and more family time than they can manage.
I hope you enjoy this Christmas tag post! If you do one link me in the comments so I can see it!
All the best during the end of the year and holiday season!
Do you like to stay in your PJ’s or dress up for Christmas?
PJs all the way! Christmas is the only day it is okay to dress down! I can eat breakfast in my flannels, open presents and even cook dinner (though generally I don’t because Mom always said where clean clothes when cooking!)
If you could only buy one person a present this year, who would it be?
My pets (collective). My dad and I are not really holiday present people. We are always on the look out for them and if we find something we make an excuse, like ‘it’s your quarter birthday!’, to give it as a gift.
Do you open your presents Christmas Eve or Christmas morning?
Christmas morning.
Have you ever built a Gingerbread house?
I vaguely remember making one at my father’s holiday work party when I was six or seven years old. I don’t remember bringing it home and I’m sure I was not very good at decorating the house!
What do you like to do on your Christmas break?
Sleep! The holidays are the perfect time for me to rest and bring any Rheumatoid Arthritis flares down. The best days are those I take a nap with my three pets!
What’s your favorite Christmas meal or treat?
Mint hot cocoa from Trader Joe’s. I stock up and buy a few tins because the store always sells out. I personally love peppermint year round so I’m set with my favorite chocolate!
What’s your favorite holiday movie?
Rent. The story takes place during the holidays. It can be very depressing at times but it maintains the spirit of the season with an absolutely lovely story and even more beautiful music.

Candy Canes or Gingerbread Men?
Candy canes. By the way, why can’t I find the traditional red and white candy canes in grocery stores? They sell the green/white spearmint ones or the tri-colored ones but never the plain old-fashioned striped one!!
Have you ever made a snowman?
Yes, at my childhood best friend’s house. She, her brother, cousin and I worked together to make a huge one! That same winter, I attempted one on my own and proudly, the bottom snowball was taller than me; though, I couldn’t put them one on top of each other and it turned into a deconstructed snowman.
Which do you like better, Christmas Eve or Christmas Day?
Christmas Day! Everything starts on the morning of the 25th. I’d wake up early and enjoy hot cocoa with a slice of Paneton (hispanic fruitcake). We’d open presents and just hang out with the family! Sometimes, we’d go to a family friend’s house for dinner but generally the day was pretty chill.

White lights, or colored lights?
Honestly, it all depends on my mood. My family has accumulated a ton of traditional colorful Peruvian ornaments so I prefer white on the tree; but, sometimes I like a plain tree with colored strings and no ornaments!
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04 Sunday Jun 2017
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The Half-Yearly Women’s Sale is in full swing (the sale ends June 4th. If there is anything you are on the fence about purchasing do it now!) so I had to check it out. This is the best time to shop the Nordstrom sale because many high quality items go for anything between 30% and 50% off! Those are pretty good numbers in my book! Helpful Hint: If you don’t find what you’re looking for keep an eye on the Nordstrom sale tab because most of their non-luxury items end up there at some point or other during the year.
The sale is site wide and in-store, hitting women, men, home and accessories so there is bound to be something of interest to you!
Below are my picks for good clothes choices for people with RA These make one of the more common symptoms of Rheumatoid Arthritis more manageable. As a Spoonie, I look for an easy fit, makes difficult Rheumatoid movement easier (ie. zippers, buttons, etc), and comes in fun colors that brighten my mood.
What do you think of the items I chose? Do you like them too?
This awesome NIC+ZOE Convertible Wrap is the perfect soft material to get in and out of easily without moving my shoulders too much. It is comfortable and does not apply unneeded pressure to any sensitive joints! The color is fun and jovial! Right up my alley.
I already own these Sanuk Yoga Sling Sandals and absolutely love them. The bottom is nice and squishy so it super comfortable on the feet (my most painful joints). The bands are super soft and easy to open without stressing the fingers too much. Another added bonus is how well they fit my skinny little ankle! Over time the bottom will compress and the bands will expand but for $40 I really can’t lose! There are other solid colors like white, burgundy and black but the print just screams summer to me!
This Cold Shoulder Slub Knit Top from Bobeau is my quintessential summer top in one of my favorite colors! The material is very thin but it is perfectly billowy and cool. It allows good air flow so my body won’t get sweaty and uncomfortable. The sleeves are a little more tricky to get into but they are soft and don’t mind a little stretch! Orange not your color, no worries, there are plenty more!
Wrap necklaces are all the rage and adorn almost every fashion blogger’s neck. For the first time, I actually like the style of an on-trend piece and this one from BP has the right amount of cord and pizazz. This might take a little shoulder, wrist, and finger manipulation but if you suffer from steroid ‘moon face’ and have extra bloating in your face and neck, the wraps will trick the eye into thinking you look thinner!
I am a tight pants, slouchy top kind of person and during the summer I go extra with the top. I want something bright, fun, and easy to put on like this SOCIALITE Metallic Pullover. The fabric is light and malleable so it provides a slight barrier against any winds that want to slap at my already sensitive joints.
If you are a Spoonie and a fashionista it is no secret that a new accessory in your favorite print just puts you in a better mood which in turns lessens the symptoms of your autoimmune. Good use of psychology, right?? I love Chanel tweed and this kate spade new york purse is similar at a fraction of the cost! I would so carry this on the days I need an extra pick-me-up.
What did you think of my picks? Are you going to try out these pieces? Did you try any others? Let me know in the comments!
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14 Monday Mar 2016
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I am a 90s kid who grew up with Full House so I was one of the thousands sitting on the edge of my seat for the reboot Fuller House.
The original show is one of my all-time favorite shows and I own the entire series on DVD. Whenever I feel particularly stressed I pop in a CD and run the show in the background. The show is charming, funny and cute.
The premise of Fuller House is virtually the same as its parent series. DJ’s (now a successful veterinarian) husband dies and she is left raising three sons on her own. Stephanie and Kimmy move into the original Tanner home and help out. Does this sound familiar?
In anticipation for the Feb. 26, 2016 premiere on Netflix Instant Streaming I re-watched Full House with no regrets.
Below are my thoughts on different parts of the new series and how they may compare to the old. Enjoy!
Pilot/First Episode
I did not like the first episode of Fuller House. It is disjointed, awkward, and you wonder what the prize was for the “how many Full House references can we make?” game.
I had a couple of specific issues with the episode as well which when added together made for one of the most obnoxious pilots I think I’ve ever seen.
It is no secret Full House was not filmed live so unsurprisingly Fuller House uses the same setup. Unfortunately, Fuller House relies too heavily on the sound board. The first five minutes is a constant wave of applause as Full House alumni enter the scene. Trust us, we know who these people are!….Chances are we wouldn’t watch this show if we didn’t.
Second, the episode is just awkward! It has been over 20 years since the original show ended and well…the chemistry between the older actors is gone. The camaraderie we love from the Full House is lost between Bob Saget, John Stamos, and Dave Coulier. However, while the group dynamic prominently changes, singular characters stay the same, namely, Jesse, Becky and Joey.
Full House began in 1987 and current pop culture has evolved into something completely different. The writers tried, rather unsuccessfully, to bridge the gap so it doesn’t make sense to the new viewer and feels odd to the old. The subsequent episodes are well updated but I find it odd that the writers didn’t bridge this introductory episode properly.
The most awkward moment of the 35 minute pilot (other than Stephanie’s short-lived British accent) is when Danny mentions Michelle and her fashion empire. The entire cast stares straight ahead at the camera for WAY TOO LONG. It feels like a minute. And, all the while, that blasted laugh box is going. I understand the cast throwing shade at the Olsen twins but that is just too much.
Speaking of…
Let’s Talk the Elephant in the Room…or Lack of (Michelle Tanner/the Olsen Twins)
Michelle Tanner’s absence from Fuller House is nothing short of conspicuous. Do I care? Not necessarily. Michelle was my least favorite character on Full House. She was spoiled, bratty and annoying. And, she really wasn’t as cute as they made her out to be. Only children look like perfect little angels compared to Michelle.
Regarding her absence on the Fuller House I think her presence would detract from the show. She would feel out of place in the already strong group Kimmy, DJ and Stephanie form.
However, I think it is really low of Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen to not even guest-star (even the little twins did!). The original show made them famous and gave them their start in this industry. Elizabeth and James would not be a thing without Full House. It is extraordinarily “rude” of them to not even acknowledge this. They spent years shedding their goody-two shoes imagine they were branded with from Full House and their made for TV movies and that’s okay but they should appreciate what this show did for them!
And, I’m sorry but “I haven’t acted since I was 17” is BS. Just admit you do not want to play the character anymore and cannot convincingly play the part.
Danny Tanner/Bob Saget
While I think the Olsen twins should have at least guest-starred, I wonder if Bob Saget shouldn’t have just bowed out. It was particularly obvious that he couldn’t care less about re-visiting Danny Tanner. Under normal circumstances, as a fan, I would appreciate his appearances but Saget was so unattached I almost wish he hadn’t been there at all.
Danny Tanner was one of my favorite characters. He was awkward, goofy and kind of freakish and Saget played him well. Danny Tanner liked what he liked and had no reservations about who he was and all the while being one terrific father!
The Danny on Fuller House is nothing like the Danny on Full House. The “new and improved” Danny Tanner feels lazy, awkward and couldn’t care less about his family. He cannot wait to get to LA and play with his new wife. Oh, and speaking of his new wife: there is no real chemistry and we know she is there for his money.
Not to be wholly unfair, we do glimpse the old Danny during Saget’s second guest appearance. He cares about his daughter’s grandchildren but I still get the sense he doesn’t really want to be there.
Joey, Jesse, and Becky
I only want to spend a few minutes on these guys. The characters matured but remained the same goofy, lovable but mostly eccentric people we grew to love.
During Full House, Joey could not go a full two sentences without making a joke. It was annoying at times but I appreciated just how talented Dave Coulier was. During Fuller House, Joey makes a few jokes here and there but it is obvious the character grew up. At the beginning of his career, Joey was highly unsuccessful and overcompensated by turning everything into a joke. Now that he plays 10 shows a week in Las Vegas, he can be a normal human being in his every day life!
I don’t have a lot to say about Jesse except that he is exactly the same but older. He has the same wit and eccentricities and is still madly in love with with his wife.
I always really loved Becky. She was sweet, independent, and sassy. She never changed to be with Jesse and was a great friend, aunt and mother. She was successful and unapologetic about it. She was a woman I could aspire to be. Now, 30 years older, she is exactly the same with a little bit of baby fever thrown in. It might sound strange if you have not watched the new series yet. She was always happy with her two twins and pleased she still worked but she played a woman of “a certain age” extremely well!
The New Cast
I really cannot speak more highly about Cameron-Bure, Sweetin and Barbara’s performances! I am glad the show revolves around them with the older characters cast in supporting roles because these three have such a great chemistry that carries through from the original show. The plot doesn’t make sense sometimes (hello, Bollywood episode) but I somehow always forgive the crazy because their relationships are spot on.
The biggest difference between Full and Fuller House is the storyline. Yes, the premise is the same but this reboot is less about the family as a whole than each character’s separate lives: DJ’s dating life, Stephanie trying to maintain her independence, Kimmy and her ex, Max and Cosmo…you get my drift…
I know they did this mostly for the fans to see where the girls are now but I think the show is sorely lacking in the family dynamic. This was the best part of the original series. Even when we learned about one character there was always some family member on the sidelines. And, because the first season focuses on the girls we miss out on the incredible talent on the child actors. They breathe life into their stereotypical teenage characters but barely get any storyline.
As a whole I think the show is cute for nostalgic reasons and has vast room for growth. Netflix announced there will be a second season so I hope the producers and writers start to take this reboot seriously and gives it the potential for a true stand alone show!
Just don’t watch the pilot first! Heh…
Hi, my name is Monica and I have RA.
18 Wednesday Mar 2015
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The weather warms up so I start my search for new spring clothes. My first stop: Nordstrom. I have a couple of brands I love at the store and lucky for me, they are usually on sale. I strolled the website and highlighted some of my favorites below.
I am having serious trench envy. I do not own any true trench coats so I cannot help but fall in love with the bright colors. I mean…cobalt???
Enjoy!
1. Until I own my own Chanel this Jessica McClintock Tweed Clutch comes as a close second!
2. What a freaking bright color. I love the double buttons and short length on this Michael Kors Double Breasted Trench Coat
3. I love the simplicity and muted color of this Via Spiga Hooded Trench which is perfect for a cloudy day!
4. This is probably my favorite of the entire bunch: short length, not a lot of buttons, a cinched waist, bright color. This Ellen Tracy Short Trench Coat is on my list!
5. Halogen is one of my favorite brands. The Silk & Cotton shirts are light, airy and are both casual and professional!
6. Caslon is another of my favorite brands. The material is light and durable, perfect for me! Caslon is one of the few brands whose shirts are a little shorter. My torso is super super short so I opt for baggier bright tops like this V-Back Sweater.
7. These Cotton Shirts from Caslon are comfortable and sheer; perfect for the spring! I was drawn to the subtle green squares on this one.
8. Because of that short torso of mine I usually style fitted bottoms and baggy or less fitted tops so how can I say no to this bright red Madewell Linen Tee?
Do you like any of my picks? What are you going to wear this Spring?
Hi, my name is Monica and I have RA.